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You know screens are a problem in your home. You have tried limits and rules, and it has not stuck. This is the core program two PhD clinical psychologists built because nothing else met the bar.

Five modules, twenty-nine lessons. Most of them are a tool you use rather than a video you watch, so you finish with a plan instead of notes.

  • Know exactly where your child stands. A thirty item assessment scores eight areas, then a decision tree narrows it to the one or two changes worth making first.
  • Get the software right. Ten parental control tools compared across seven capabilities, with nothing to sell you, plus a recommender that narrows it to the devices you own and the age of your child.
  • Know what to say when it gets loud. The validate and wait framework, eight conflict moments to rehearse, and a handover simulator covering ten real situations from ages five to fourteen.
  • Be ready for the phone and social media. A phone readiness simulator, and a twelve month first year that hands you a thirteen year old with a new phone and everything switched on.

You leave with a written screen plan, a letter to your child, and a printable family agreement. Eight video walkthroughs cover the parts that are better explained than practiced.

How It Compares

This program vs. an app vs. a book

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The Screen Balance
Program
A Parental
Control App
A Book or
Advice Online
Tells you where your child actually stands✓✕✕
Blocks apps and sets time limits on the device~✓✕
Tells you which change to make first✓✕~
Still works once your child finds the workaround✓✕~
Gives you the words for the hard moment✓✕~
Compares the software honestly, with nothing to sell✓✕~
Prepares you for the first phone and social media✓~~
Ends with a plan your child has agreed to✓✕✕

The Screen Balance Program

Five modules. Each one moves your family forward. ✓ Module 1: Understand your child and why screens pull so hard ✓ Module 2: Find the one or two changes actually worth making ✓ Module 3: Build your written screen plan and get the software right ✓ Module 4: Handle the pushback with calm, scripted responses ✓ Module 5: Get ahead of the first phone and social media ✓ The complete book as a PDF, plus the printable family agreement and check in charts ✓ The interactive Family Dashboard, which tracks your progress

$99.00 USD

What you get

5 Modules29 Lessons8 Videos, 32 MinutesInteractive throughout
✓Know exactly where your child stands+

A thirty item assessment scores eight areas and places your child on a clinical profile map, then a decision tree narrows everything to the one or two changes worth making first.

✓Build your screen plan+

Not a template: you work through your own child’s assessment and your family’s why, and finish with a written screen plan, a letter to your child, and a printable family agreement.

✓Learn the 6 intervention types+

There are only six real levers for changing screen use. You learn what each one does, and what each one costs you.

✓Pick the right ones for your family+

A guided tool takes your assessment and narrows six down to the two or three that actually fit your situation.

✓Navigate the software maze+

Ten parental control tools compared across seven capabilities, with nothing to sell you and no affiliate links, plus a recommender that narrows it to the devices you own and the age of your child.

✓Handle the conflict+

Extinction bursts, the Validate and Wait framework, eight conflict moments to rehearse, and a handover simulator covering ten real situations from ages five to fourteen.

✓Roll it out so it sticks+

The handover routine, how to introduce changes so they stick, and what to expect in the first two weeks when it gets worse before it gets better.

✓Get ahead of phones and social media+

A phone readiness simulator, and a twelve month first year that hands you a thirteen year old with a new phone and everything switched on. Worked through before you are in the argument, not after it.

Everything the program gives you

Every module is a tool you use, not a video to sit through. Here is what is inside, and what it builds for your family.

The Screen Balance Program

Build the screen plan your
family will actually follow.

The complete program from two clinical psychologists. Five modules and twenty-nine lessons of tools you use rather than videos you watch: see your child clearly, choose the right changes, and roll them out calmly.

One-time payment · 14-day money-back guarantee · Updates included

A look inside
A year from now, screens will still be part of family life. The question is whether you have a plan for them.

Three of the interactive tools waiting inside the program, captured as your family will see them. Each one saves your progress to the Family Dashboard.

Climb the Decision Tree tool

Climb the Decision Tree

Everything feels like it needs fixing at once? Climb the tree, rating each branch as you go, and it narrows a messy week of screen decisions down to the one or two changes actually worth making first.

Which tool fits your family

Which tool fits your family?

Confused about whether to use parental control software, and which one to pick? Answer four quick questions about what you actually need it to do, and the tool narrows the field to the one that fits your devices and your child, and shows you exactly why it won.

Put Out the Fire practice

Put Out the Fire

Dreading the moment you say screens off? Rehearse nine real meltdown moments across three age groups and practice the words that calm things down instead of feeding the fire, before you need them for real.

Every lesson gives you something to work through

Twenty-four of the tools and exercises, shown the way they appear inside the program.

Part A · Regulation and resistance

My child becomes distressed when screen access is removed.

Screen time often leads to arguments or tension.

BalancedLoud but fullQuiet, thinScreens run it
Module 1Where your child standsEight areas scored, then you pick which of four pictures fits.

MayaBreaks over 7 hrs

SamBreaks at 3 hrs

Module 1How much is too muchThe same amount of screen time on two children with different lives.
Protect sleepCap total daily time
Module 2Where to startClimb six branches, then pick the one or two worth doing first.
Screen plan
Letter
Family agreement
Module 3Your plan, letter and agreementWritten from your own reasons, then printed and put where everyone sees it.
Belt: white

“Everyone else has a phone. I will be the only one without one.”

Challenge 1 of 8
Module 4The Resistance DojoEight real pushbacks. Miss one, learn why, go again.
Everything allowed
SepOctNovDecJan…
Module 5The First YearA 13 year old, a new phone, twelve months of real situations.
Soothing
Shielding
Filling

“Siblings start bickering, so the television goes on.”

Scenario 4 of 12
Module 1The 3 Digital DangersTwelve everyday situations, to show which of the three is becoming your default.
12345
Module 1Grow a resilient flowerGuide one real moment through the five steps, for when your child wants a screen and you want to hold the limit. Each right call grows a leaf.
The water is cool · 20°
-8°12°31°50°too warm

“It is 6pm, dinner is twenty minutes away, and they are mid-game with friends.”

Module 1Hand on the dialEight ordinary evenings, and what each choice does to the temperature.
AAPConsistent limits from 6 up. No single number fits every child.
WHONone under 1. Up to an hour at ages 3 to 4, and less is better.
UK CMOsNo hour targets. Ask what screens are displacing.

The shift is away from how long, and toward what it is replacing.

Module 1What the research actually saysWhere the AAP, the WHO and the UK Chief Medical Officers land now, and why they moved away from a single number.
Module 1Neuroscience of screensThe brain keeps asking what gives the most stimulation for the least effort. Screens win that comparison every time.
MTWTFSS
lowsomeheavy
Module 2Your screen heatmapFill in one real week and the pattern usually shows up within a few days.
Overall screen timeScreen-free momentsScreen-free conditionsScreen-free zonesScreen type limitsContent limits
Two picked, four for later
Module 2Six intervention targetsSix levers a family can pull. A sixty second quiz narrows it to the one or two worth starting with.
TimeFilterBlockingAlerts
Apple Screen TimeFreeYesYesYes–
Google Family LinkFreeYesPartYes–
Qustodio$55–100 / yrYesYesYesPart
Bark~$14 / moYesYesYesCore
Module 3What software can holdTen tools compared, then a shortlist built for your family.
Your letter will read

We have been thinking about screens in our home. We want you to sleep well, have energy for school, and have the evenings back as a family

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Module 3Your why statementOne or two honest sentences about what you want for your family. They go straight into the letter.
Hold the lineGive in
Module 4What the first week looks likePushback usually increases before it settles. The exercise shows what that looks like across two weeks.
ValidateWaitAvoid
Module 4Put out the fireNine moments across three ages. Every calm reply brings the fire down.
“You always do this.”“That sounds really unfair to you.”
Module 4The 10-second challengeIn a real meltdown you get ten seconds, not five minutes.
Five more minutes. I am nearly finished.
Give the five minutesHold it, warmlyTake the device
Module 4The handoverTen real handover moments, played out one at a time.
CalmWired
Round 3 of 7
Module 5Settle the nightSeven calls in the last hour, and the morning that follows each one.
WWDWLWDWWWDLWWDWWW
ChaosRealistic
Module 5The perfect monthEvenings dealt at random, three replies each. Win, draw or lose.
Age 7Age 16

“A classmate brought a phone to school, and now yours is asking.”

A smartwatchNot yet, and say why
Module 5One call at a timeThe phone decision played out from age seven to sixteen.
Resistance
Control
Displacement
At the startOne month on
Module 5Your before and afterCome back a month later, run it again, and see the two side by side.
Core path · step 13 of 20
The Clear PictureTarget SetterThe Agreement+8 more
Home baseYour family dashboardEverything you make lives here, on a trail that remembers where you left off. None of it leaves your browser.

Every tool above is interactive inside the course. See the full list of what is included

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